FriENDzone

Hey Kids! Vulnerability is Cool! One of the new things I did in 2019 was confess my feelings to a guy I liked without knowing for a fact that he felt the same way. Another first? Getting friendzoned. (holla) And while y’all might be like “agh bummer! so sorry! the friend zone is the worst!” […]

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My 2020 Vision

The moon says the new year starts now, so Happy (Lunar) New Year! It also gave me the satisfaction of not feeling bad about procrastinating my 2019 review/2020 goals, so holla at ya moon. The title of this blog post is misleading, this is more like a “year in review” post for 2019, but “My […]

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Toxic Positivity: It’s OK to be Goo

I get that toxic is a ~trendy~ word right now that nobody takes seriously, but hear me out. Toxic positivity is real. And contradictory for positive mental/emotional growth and development. I think we’ve created this culture of positivity that can help some people while simultaneously harming others. And that’s what I want to address today: […]

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I Wanna Get Better

How soon after a suicidal period are you allowed to talk about it without people getting weird and worried about you? Is five months long enough? It’s World Mental Health Day, and heckfest is gonna talk about it. cuz folx, living every day when you hate living is a heckfest. I’m a real big advocate […]

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